Cunnilingus mask

Cunnilingus has an undeserved reputation as one of the trickiest sexual acts to perform well. She Comes First easily ranks in my personal top five. Most sex books are too vague to actually be useful, but Kerner covers every aspect of cunnilingus in detail, and gives tons of specific techniques. Kerner had a personal stake in honing his oral sex technique, too—he bravely admits in the opening chapter that his struggles with premature ejaculation motivated him to find other ways of pleasing his partners. Others dislike being the center of attention, or find themselves unable to relax when receiving. Women are socialized to be hypercritical of their bodies, so having your eyes, nose, and mouth right in the middle of one of the most sensitive parts of it is going to evoke at least a little resistance.

Cunnilingus is a great and wonderful thing, but because a lot of dudes out there are unsophisticated heathens with no regard for manners, it can absolutely be ruined by an impolite partner. Here are eight crucial oral sex etiquette rules that all men should imprint on their brains. Wipe off your mouth before coming up for a big ol' juicy smooch. There's nothing gross about a vagina or any of the stuff that comes out of one. But that doesn't mean every woman wants an entire face full of her own vagina after a dude is done going down on her — if she thinks it's super hot and wants to kiss you ASAP, she'll let you know. You don't need to do a deep cleanse and face mask between oral and making out, but if you don't know her preferences, a quick swipe of the hand is very courteous. Ask for directions if you get lost.

The pleasure of oral sex is, for many people, one of the joys of being human. Might I remind you that the clitoris —the rosebud-like bump at the top of the vulva—is extraordinarily sensitive? Because not everything works the same way for every person with a vulva, my job can be rather difficult. So, to get some nitty gritty, down-to-earth assistance, I asked 15 people with vaginas for their best oral sex advice. Of course these are the tips, tricks, and preferences of 15 specific people.

All close contact within 6 feet or 2 meters with an infected person can expose you to the virus that causes coronavirus disease COVID — whether you're engaged in sexual activity or not. The virus spreads by respiratory droplets released when someone with the virus coughs, sneezes or talks. These droplets can be inhaled or land in the mouth or nose of a person nearby.